Being charged with a criminal offense can be a turning point in someone’s life. For many, it can serve as a reality check and brings home the fact that their actions have real consequences for both themselves and others. In some cases, this can make a person wake up and realize that the way they have been living recently is not sustainable if they want a happy and successful life. As a result, they may decide to turn their life around and get on the straight and narrow path.
However, for some people, a criminal charge such as a DWI can have the opposite effect. If they have been feeling as though they are worthless, irresponsible or heading down the wrong path, they may interpret the criminal charge as confirmation of all the negative thoughts that they have been having about themselves. As a result, they may spiral into depression, starting to drink more and trying to ignore their problems. If you have recently been charged with a DUI, the following are some tips for avoiding getting into that trap.
Remind yourself that you are not your mistakes
After a DWI, you may plunge into a state of being ashamed of yourself. Drinking while driving is irresponsible and dangerous, but this one action that you took. You are more than one stupid thing you have done — define yourself by your intention to become better rather than your past mistakes.
Today is a new day
You can’t change the past, but you can control how you act now! Turn over a new page and think about the power you have to change yourself.
You have the right to defend yourself
Everyone has the right to defend themselves against criminal charges. You may be able to show that you were subject to an improper stop, and have all charges dropped.
Make sure that you take swift action toso that you have a good chance of a brighter future.